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40 WAYS TO OVERCOME SHYNESS


This is the concluding part of the series I started three days ago. I thought to conclude with this because it is very important in this ‘trilogy’ as it finishes the ’40’s series’ leaving you a little amazed at how easy it is to face life. Without mincing words,shyness is one thing responsible for half-measures or under-acchievements. Hence,the need to overcome it.

THE 40 WAYS TO OVERCOME SHYNESS ARE:
#1
Improve your sense of humour.
#2
Avoid unnecessary competition.
#3
Create confident habits.
#4
Stop thinking so logically, it only stands on your way.
#5
Make a list of your fears
#6
Try overcoming past trauma.
#7
LIKE YOURSELF.
#8
Be free with yourself.
#9
Forgive yourself.
#10
Accept your fears and gradually eliminate them — starting from the weakest.
#11
Know where your fear is coming from.
#12
FREE YOUR MIND.
#13
Transform social pain to social pleasure.
#14
Visualize your success.
#15
Do away with negative thoughts immediately they surface.
#16
LEARN TO CONGRATULATE YOURSELF BOTH MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY.
#17
Live completely in the present moment.
#18
Reprogram your subconscious until you are convinced you are confident.
#19
MEDITATE.
#20
Know that the whole world belongs to you.
#21
TRY TO BE FREE WHEN OUT DOORS.
#22
Breathe deeply to relax yourself — try it.
#23
Stop judging yourself most times.
#24
TALK WITH CONFIDENCE
#25
Smile often — Laugh well!!!
#26
Strengthen your voice.
#27
Ask people deep questions.
#28
Talk to at least a stranger a day.
#29
MAKE STRONG EYE CONTACT WITH OTHERS!
#30
Go for good meetings — expose yourself.
#31
Ignore insults.
#32
DRESS WELL!
#33
Play with your friends.
#34
Sing in front of others.
#35
Practise social experiment. For instance,instead of having handshakes with somebody;hug the person.
#36
Expand your world by sharing new perspective.
#37
Don’t ever say, “I’m the shy type”
#38
When speaking to a crowd, learn to look at them because they owe you. Practise it!
#39
Listen to music through a headset and nod — sometimes even in public.
#40
Join a society;say choir,usher or club that will help to expose you in the organization you belong. It will be good for you.

this is the end of this series. Anticipate more from us and don’t forget we’ve announced we’ll be rebranding soon,so expect new things very soon. Comment on the post below,thanks

By a brillant mind,read gratuituously!!

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